Violence and sexual violence between partners: A qualitative analysis of female victims’ experiences

Subject: In the 1970s, domestic violence was put on the political agenda as
a societal problem. Since then, research exploring the dynamics of Intimate
Partner Violence (IPV) has multiplied, but the study of sexual violence between
partners is still topical. This article examines female victims’ experiences of
intimate partner sexual violence (IPSV). Method: This qualitative study uses a
thematic approach to explore how IPV victims perceive sexual violence within
their couple. Semi-structured interviews, which include the use of qualitative
life calendars, were conducted with 20 women. Results: The thematic analysis of
the 20 interviews highlighted several themes and sub-themes that address (1)
sexual violence experienced by victims within the couple, (2) their perception of
sexual violence, and (3) the reasons why they submitted to unwanted sex in an
abusive relationship. Conclusion: Experiences of sexual violence are the result
of different dynamics; however, IPSV is a form of violence that is still difficult
to identify and is more often defined by victims as an impulse or aggression
than a rape. Within the couple, the impact of violence, but also the influence of
gender stereotypes, affect the perception of violence, assertiveness capacities,
and, therefore, the ability to express free consent. Victims submitt to their
partner because they are afraid of him; they want to protect themselves or
their children; or they do not have the capacity to express their non-consent.